If you found out that your fiance may be terminally ill, would you hurry up and get married?

My sister's fiance was diagnosed with a brain tumor. It doesn't look good. He's only in his 30's and it's very sad. She is going to marry him right away. My Mom said that this isn't really a good idea. She's afraid that because my sister has a better job that they may go after her with the medical bills. Is that true? I think she should marry him. She wants him to know that she's not going to leave him no matter what happens and I think that's important.If you found out that your fiance may be terminally ill, would you hurry up and get married?
She should follow her heart, and at least they will be known as husband and wife should he not make it. An if he does make it (which I pray he does) then they can throw a big fancy wedding once he is fully recovered. I would say yes go for it.If you found out that your fiance may be terminally ill, would you hurry up and get married?
My sister married her husband when he was terminally ill, they were married for just three months before he died. It was the best wedding I have ever been to, they were both so happy and although we all knew what was in store for them both, for one day at least, we could all party like crazy and forget that life can be really s**t sometimes. Your sister should go for it, it will be the best day of her life and it will be lovely for her to have some happy memories (and photos) to look back on. I hope the day goes well for you all.
true she does not want to leave him. but he is going to be leaving her, most people do not survive from brain tumors. i am truly sorry for your sister.
Does either of them have medical insurance?





I think she should too... let him die happy...
It's very sad when someone comes down with a terminal illness, but that's not a reason to get married. If it was going well and they were heading towards marriage before the diagnosis, then it's romantic and beautiful that the wedding should continue. But if she's going to marry the guy because he has an illness, that's not going to work out.





She may have the idea that she might as well marry him, because he's going to die soon and leave her single again, so nothing lost. What if he recovers? Miracles are rare, but they do happen. Now she's stuck with him. Even if he does die, it's going to be a gut-wrenching experience that even strong marriages sometimes can't survive, let alone a weak one. And your mother has a good point. The bottom line is, if she really loves him, she should marry him. If not, she shouldn't marry him, but she can still be him until the end as a partner and friend.