Friday, January 15, 2010

My wife is very ill tempered.if she is angry she will destroy me.but she loves me .should i divorce her?

my wife isMy wife is very ill tempered.if she is angry she will destroy me.but she loves me .should i divorce her?
you need to calmly and firmly explain that her behavior is damaging you emotionally, and is harmful to your relationship. Mention a time in the recent past when this occurred and try to describe the way it made you feel toward her and about yourself. do you feel trapped? unappreciated? Explain that you are not comfortable with the relationship the way it is, and for your own mental health and hers you are not willing to continue in an abusive situation. If she reacts violently give her space and time to calm down but remain very calm and don't play into her behavior by getting involved in an argument, or allowing yourself to respond emotionally. If/when she is calm and ready to talk ask her why she thinks she acts the way she does. does she feel frustrated and not know a better way to express herself? Is she bottling emotion only to explode later? Have you hurt her? Trying to understand her emotional condition will go a long way in allowing her to feel safe enough to admit that she might need help. Above all, tell her that you love her and believe in her ability to overcome her negative behavior making sure she understands that you will be there for her during this time of change.My wife is very ill tempered.if she is angry she will destroy me.but she loves me .should i divorce her?
dear, divorce is not the solution for every problem in marriage life... u should discuss the matter with ur wife, use other ways to realize her mistake like


stop talking to her,


if she angers at u just remain silent after sometime she will realize her mistake,


when ever she got angry and start scolding u just kiss her lips at that moment, her anger will turn into romance


love her so much


good luck :-)
You think she loves you!!!! You don't destroy people you love but you won't find that out until you find someone that really love you!!!
Anger management should be your first thought, not divorce.
No, but you should talk to her about her anger problems and if possible get her to some counseling sessions.
Your wife is what? What happened? Did she come in and kick your a s s
no seek help

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